U & Me

U Gave me!

U r my Friend

Helping Hand

Here I sit, thinking only of you

Wondering what is to become of us

Understanding all you have been through

Hoping to slowly gain your trust

My heart aches for you,

and also I yearn I want to understand you

In hopes that I will learn

Your unique and special qualities amaze me

Your smile

Your mind

Your voice

and its beautiful sound

Your eyes

Your hair

Your ability to cheer me up

When you see that I am down

My feelings for you go beyond that of words

And at first it didn't seem real

But that just taught me a lesson

In doubting what I feel

It seems I dreamed you into life

And the reason for my stare

The bluest sky

The deepest sea

Don't even compare

Becky, you're so very special in every single way

And thoughts of you

Run through my head

Every hour of the day

I hope that you will understand

Just how I feel about you

I want to be your guiding hand

For all that you go through . .

Always....

Broken Heart

Nobody Knows its empty
This smile tht I wear,
The real 1 is left in the past
Bcoz U have left me there.

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Nobody knows Im crying
They wont even see my tears,
When they think that Im laughing
I still wishing U were here.

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Nobody knows its painful
They think that Im strong,
They say that this wont kill me
But I wonder if they were wrong.

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Nobody knows Im praying
That U will change my mind,
They think that I had let U go
When U left me behind.

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Nobody knows I miss U
They think I feel set free,
But I feel like Im bound with chains
Trapped in the mystery.

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Nobody knows I need U
They say I can do it on my own,
But they don’t know Im crying
When I m all alone.

Hello Friend

How to Succeed

Don't talk negatively about people behind their backs.
If you gossip, people won't confide in you.
Mind your own business.

Try to work for someone who'll challenge your powers.
You'll learn more in a year than 4 years of college.

Successful bosses have good communication skills.
They learn from people, including their employees.

Work in such a way that makes your boss look good.
It's not flattery.

On downsizing, the first to go are those with few friends.
Bosses prefer competent people whom they respect.

Dress for the job you want, not the one you have.
Let your dress reflect professionalism.

Personal integrity is crucial.
Tell nothing but the truth.
Bosses can forgive mistakes but if you lie, you're gone.

Be on time.
Try to arrive few minutes early.
It saves you from stress.
You'll be much relaxed & work better

Workout to get in good physical shape.
Unless exceptionally skilled, the unhealthy are at a comparative disadvantage.


Strive your best to keep a deadline.
If you cannot meet it, then apologize & ask for an extension

Don't take things personally.

If some people are unhappy with you, it's their problem.
But always strive to give your best.

If you must correct someone,don't get personal about it.
Do it never in front of others.

Spend some time alone everyday. What's the mission of my life? What do I want to be?And how to go about it.

As you move along Plan A of your career,maintain a Plan B as well —an alternative course to rely

Always remember that the secret of success is passion. Always think big. Spread love & joy. You'll have blissful years ahead

Its your own world

Don't compare yourself with any one in this world.

If you compare, you are insulting yourself.

No one will manufacture a lock without a key

Similarly God won't give problems without solutions.

Life laughs at you when you are unhappy...

Life smiles at you when
you are happy...Life salutes you when
you make others happy...

Every successful person has a painful story.Every painful story has a successful ending.

Accept the pain and get ready for success.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes.

It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to cover the earth with carpet.

No one can go back and change a bad beginning;

But anyone can start now and create a successful ending.

If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it.

If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying?

If you miss an opportunity don't fill the eyes with tears.

It will hide another better opportunity in front of you

"Changing the Face" can change nothing.But "Facing the Change" can change everything.

Don't complain about others;Change yourself if you want peace.

Mistakes are painful when they happen.

But year's later collection of mistakes is called experience, which leads to success.

Be bold when you looseand be calm when you win.

Heated gold becomes ornament. Beaten copper becomes wires. Depleted stone becomes statue. So the more pain you get in life you become more valuable.

Indian finds Saudi father after 27 years

DREAM COME TRUE:

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ALKHOBAR: Twenty-eight-year-old Indian national Ahmed Fahhad Mohammad Al-Hajri's story is stranger than fiction. It is a story that film directors in India would die for. It is straight out of Bollywood.

Born to a Saudi father and an Indian mother in Mumbai in 1981, Ahmed Al-Hajri has spent most of his life trying to track down his father. His father, Fahhad Mohammad Faleh Al-Hajri, was suffering from acute spinal pain in the early 1980s when he headed to Mumbai for an operation. One of his friends accompanied him to India. The treatment was to be long and hard. The two Saudis decided to marry in India.

They went about it in a legal and Islamic way. Thirty-eight-year-old Fahhad married Salma Khan. The marriage took place in 1980 with the consent of Salma's father, Khair Mohammad Khan, who originally hailed from Swat Valley before the partition of India in 1947.
The marriage was solemnized by Qazi Abdul Jabbar Khan of Bhendi Bazar and it was duly registered. Al-Hajri stayed in Mumbai for some months and then left for Saudi Arabia never to return.

A few months later, Salma was blessed with a baby boy. She awaited her husband's return. Days turned to months and months to years. There was no way to contact Fahhad. To make matters worse for Salma, the address that Fahhad mentioned in the marriage contract was sketchy at best.

Angered by the helplessness and desperate situation of his dear daughter, Salma's father approached the Saudi Consulate and filed a written complaint against Fahhad.

"If he is not going to come back, fine; he should at least give her a divorce so that they could close the chapter," he wrote in his complaint addressed to the Saudi consul general. Nothing came of it.

There was no word from and no trace of Fahhad. Salma kept hoping against hope that he would turn up one day to surprise her and their son. That never happened. In between, Fahhad's friend, who had accompanied him to Mumbai on the first trip and who had also married another Indian woman at the time, visited India and learned about Fahhad's Indian wife giving birth to a "handsome" baby boy. He also was told by acquaintances that Salma had named Fahhad's son Ahmed. The friend did inform Fahhad about the birth of a son.

In any case, Fahhad never returned to India. He told Arab News that he did however try to locate Salma through his employees who visited India every year. He said they never succeeded because Salma had married another man and was no longer at the location Fahhad knew.
When Salma's father realized the futility of waiting endlessly for Fahhad to return, he went to Qazi Abdul Jabbar Khan. In accordance with the Islamic principles, the marriage was annulled. The husband was reported as missing. Salma's father arranged a marriage for her to another man with whom she now leads a comfortable and happy life in Mumbai. She has had more children, and she has basically turned a new leaf in her life after the turbulent 1980s.

Things weren't that easy for the son, however. He would constantly badger his mother with questions about his father. "Who is he? Where is he? Why did he leave us?" he would ask her day and night. His mother would narrate the whole story to him, night after night. "What does he look like?" Ahmed continued to ask, and eventually his mother produced a grainy black-and-white photograph of his parents, which was taken the day after their marriage.

"It is a picture of happiness, and in those impressionistic days it was my lifeline. It held the key to my existence. In that photograph, my father is on the right, and he is looking at my mother, who is smiling. There is just a side view of my father. That photograph was the only tangible thing I had that linked me to my Saudi father," Ahmed told Arab News on the phone from Bisha on Wednesday. "That photograph would eventually help me to connect the missing link in my life."

Ahmed's mother ensured he got a good education. "I did my schooling in Mumbai, and then mother sent me to Lucknow for graduate studies," Ahmed said, "but more than education my heart and mind were set on only one thing - to locate my father. I promised myself to go to any corner of the globe to find him. However, since my mother wanted me to complete my education I did it, and the day I graduated I came back to Mumbai, applied for a passport and started knocking the doors of various travel agents who would recruit people for various jobs in Saudi Arabia."

As luck would have it, it did not take long for Ahmed to get a job offer. "The travel agent said there was a Saudi employer looking for educated Indians for his companies in Saudi Arabia. That was how I was introduced to my sponsor, Khaled Al-Mutairi. 'What can you do?' he asked me at the travel agent's office in Mumbai. 'Anything,' I told him, and immediately explained the real reason for my desperate interest in coming to Saudi Arabia. He was moved by my story."
Al-Mutairi sent a visa for Ahmed as soon as he got back to Saudi Arabia.

"I landed in Dammam in 2003 for a monthly salary of SR500. I was armed with that black-and-white photograph and the marriage certificate and the copy of the complaint that my maternal grandfather had lodged against my father at the Saudi Consulate in Mumbai," said Ahmed. "I thought it would be very easy to locate him. It dawned on me very late that there were hundreds if not thousands of Al-Hajris in Saudi Arabia and that they are spread across the length and breadth of this vast Kingdom."

Ahmed worked in one of Al-Mutairi's hotels. Coincidentally, the firm that supplied ice to the hotel was named Al-Hajri Ice Factory.

"I was delighted and thought the ice-factory owner might turn out to be my father, and if not he would certainly have some clue to my father's whereabouts. I promptly produced the photograph for the ice-factory owner. He didn't recognize anybody in it. It was not he."

After a few more attempts, it dawned upon him the task was not easy. Four years passed, and he was soon losing hope when a friend of his suggested that he take recourse to putting an advertisement in Arabic newspapers. "I did just that," he said. "Not a soul responded."

A little later, Ahmed befriended a Passport Department official who would frequent their hotel. "Once again, it rekindled my hope. In the complaint that my maternal grandfather lodged with the Saudi Consulate in Mumbai, there was a mention of my father's passport number. Surely that should reveal all the contact details of my father," thought Ahmed. A few days later his friend came back without good news. "He said there were no records for that number. It seems Saudis get a new passport number every five years. Those were not the days of the computer when everything would be centralized and all data available at the click of a mouse. The old records were not there, or maybe they were there - but not in the Dammam passport office."

In a last-ditch effort, a Keralite friend suggested that he report the story in a local newspaper read by Keralites. "I never thought it would succeed, but my Keralite friend said since Keralites have a huge network spread far and wide across the Kingdom they would certainly know the Al-Hajri he was looking for. My report was published in a local Malayalam newspaper. One of the Keralites in Riyadh read it and held his head in his hands after reading it. 'Mushkila, mushkila,' he muttered. 'What mushkila?' asked his sponsor. He narrated the whole story to his sponsor and showed the picture that accompanied the article. One look and the Saudi sponsor said, 'Oh this is Fahhad Al-Hajri from Bisha.' He immediately called my father and explained everything. My father was in Riyadh at the time. He promptly sent my brother to find out all my details. When my stepbrother turned up that night at the hotel in Dammam, my heart was pounding. It was a bittersweet feeling. I was the happiest man on earth. I was about to fulfill my lifelong quest. The dots that could never be connected were about to be connected. My life was about to be complete."

Ahmed's voice chokes as he narrates the details of that night. "My father basically asked me three questions. What is your name? What is your mother's name? And what was your grandfather's name? I told him everything - the name of the person who had solemnized the marriage and the area in Mumbai where the marriage took place. My father asked me to pass on the cell phone to my stepbrother and told him, 'Yes, this is my son. He is your brother; bring him home.'"

Ahmed said he relaxed. "My job was done. Now, I was curious to see how my father looked. I thought of pestering him with many, many questions that were swirling in my mind. 'Why did he abandon us? What were the reasons? What made him do so?' There were a million things on my mind. The next morning, my brother approached my sponsor, Al-Mutairi. He readily agreed to release me. He was happy for me. 'Mabrook,' he told me. 'Anta Saudi; maafi Hindi,' he said as he bid me an emotional adieu. I then met my father. That was the most beautiful moment in my life." It was what Ahmed Fahhad Mohammad Al-Hajri so long had hoped for.

"One look at him, and all my anger dissipated in one second," he said. "I no longer had any questions. One hug from him, and it was like Paradise. He apologized for his mistake and said there were things that were beyond him. He insisted that he did try to locate Ahmed and his mother through common friends but didn't succeed. That night my father threw a grand party in Riyadh for his near and dear ones."

Ahmed then accompanied his father and brother to Bisha. "There my father threw another party. There was a big celebration. In the meantime, I informed my anxious mother about my father's discovery. She was very happy for me. My father apologized to her, as well. And as they say 'all's well that ends well.' My father now proudly introduces me to all his friends as his long-lost son from India."

Having realized his fondest dream, Ahmed is now with his father in Bisha. He still has an Indian passport. The Al-Hajris have approached the Ministry of the Interior to process Ahmed's Saudi citizenship papers. "It will take some time ... there are too many bureaucratic procedures to be completed," Ahmed says.

In the meantime, his stepbrothers, stepmother and stepsisters treat him like a prince. "They pamper me a lot," the soon-to-be Saudi said. "My father is 68 years old now and is retired, but his stepbrothers are well settled running their own businesses. I have picked up a smattering of Arabic. Conversation is no longer a problem. Acceptance in the family was the most important thing, and that happened very smoothly." The only thing that Ahmed misses other than his mother is the spicy Indian food. "Arabic food is bland; I need spicy Indian stuff," Ahmed said. "I am getting used to the Saudi food now."

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Ahmed Al-Hajri in Saudi

Arab News
The Middle East's Leading English Daily News

This will never happen in your life again

On August 7 , 2009

At 12hr 34 minutes and 56 seconds

On the 7th of August this year,

the time and date will be

12:34:56 07/08/09

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Why people fail to accomplish their goals?

Well, the first reason I would like to share with you that makes our goals fail is that we don’t have a clear enough plan of what we really want in life or to where we want to go. Without the plan, how can we possibly know when we get there? By having a clear plan we can have more conviction about where we are at present. Always remember that a well written plan is must for any success in our life.

The second reason is that, we fail to take action in order to get somewhere. Many of us wonder why our life doesn’t go the way we want it. The thing is that we often don’t know what action to take and we are not being honest with ourselves. The best idea in the universe will not take us anywhere without our action.

The final reason is most of us give up just before we are about to accomplish our goals. We let discouragement and obstacles become barriers, rather than using them as launching pads for the next approach. What if our last discouragement is the key to getting what we want? How important is this goal to us? If it is a “must” we can’t give it up. That doesn’t mean us beat our head against the wall doing the same thing over and over again but it also means us find another approach.

No one wants to fail in life. we all would like strive to be the best we can be. So you know now, why is it that some people seemingly fail over and over again. Let’s avoid the pain of failure and plan goal first, take action and never give up…

I wish you good luck to lead yourself to the road to success.

Thank you for reading.

Secret To Your Success!

Good Day!

I would like to share an awesome video from my favorite incredible coach Bob Proctor, it could help you to achieve massive success... no matter what you do, where you live, your current financial condition, what your education level is, or who you want to become!

I wish you good Luck!

Let's make the world a better place

"You make the world a better place by making yourself a better person."

Scott Sorrell

Make someone feel good.

Doing for others make us feel good. It may also be good for our physical health. A recent study found that people who give support and assistance to others live healthier and longer.

• keep smiling on your face. We can be happier at work if we smile more, even if we have to fake it. Putting on a happy face has positive benefits both for you and the people around you. Smile makes everyone feel good. Try it right now and notice how it makes you feel more relaxed.

• Help a friend, relative, or neighbor with errands, transportation, shopping, or other tasks.

• Get involved in a volunteer organization.

• Teach your child how good it feels to give to others by volunteering together as like helping out an elderly neighbor.

• Pick up trash when you see it in a park or on the beach.

• Let someone else take the good parking space or go ahead of you in line.

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I wish you good luck to make someone feels good.

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Thank you for reading

Why? Why? Why?

"As long as one keeps searching, the answers come." =Joan Baez=

Asking ourselves 'why?' helps us delve deeply into our main motives -- why we do what we do. This process helps us go deeper into our reasoning, habits and unconscious beliefs. Once we become aware of our underlying motives, we can choose to change them, if we wish.

Regularly ask yourself, 'Why am I...?' Listen closely for the answer that surfaces in your mind, and write it down. Now look at your answer and ask why again. Continue with this process to reach the true source of your motivation.

Higher Awareness

An old Father and his Son

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son.

Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is it?"

The Son replied "It is a crow".

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is it?"

The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, what is it?"

At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff.

"It's a crow, a crow".

A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, "What is it?"

This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is It", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So..,

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me. They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".

Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

Thanks you for reading...

Author: Unknown

Can I Borrow 25$?

A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5-year old son waiting for her at the door.

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SON: 'Mummy, may I ask you a question?'

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MUM: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the woman.

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SON: 'Mummy, how much do you make an hour?'

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MUM: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the woman said angrily.

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SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

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MUM: 'If you must know, I make 50$ an hour..'

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SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

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SON: 'Mummy, may I please borrow 25$?'

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The mother was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish.. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

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The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door..

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The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

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After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down , and started to think:

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Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that 25$ and she really didn't ask for money very often.The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door...

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'Are you asleep, son?' She asked.

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'No Mummy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

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'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the woman. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the 25$ you asked for.'

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The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you Mummy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

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The woman saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

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The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.

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'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the mother grumbled.

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'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

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'Mummy, I have 50$ now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

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The mother was crushed. She put his arms around her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.

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It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that 50$ worth of your time with someone you love.

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If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

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I wish you to find lots of time and enjoy it with your family

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Thank you for reading

"Be Thankful For Every Day You Have To Spend With Those You Love"

Hey there my good friends!

It's Tracy, to tell you 2 things.

Why am I telling you to be thankful? Well, because 3 days ago, my husband was involved in a severe auto accident that completely totaled my little Toyota.

He was hit head on by a drunk driver on his way to the grocery store...He's sort of a night owl and likes to go shopping late at night when there isn't heavy grocery traffic ;-)

A van pulled out in front of him and came straight for him in the wrong lane!! Then BANG! My car was hit, skidded about 20 feet from the road, and luckily there were other motorists behind him that called the police immediately.

I was taken by police escort to the hospital at around 2:35 am, which was scary seeing police at this time. That's when you KNOW something is very, very wrong. They were very professional and polite letting me know that my husband was all right, but he was injured, and that the accident wasn't his fault :-D Lovely police ;-)

The story gets even scarier though.

My husband told me the day after the accident that he was planning on taking our 10 year old daughter with him that night, but something in the back of his mind said "No, Don't".

If she would have been in that car, she would have surely been sitting in the front passenger side, and that is where a majority of the damage occurred, she would have been killed almost instantly.

Now, THAT is truly a wake up call of the highest order!!

So, be thankful that you have your loved ones around you because someone careless could take them from you in an instant.

Hug your children and tell them you love them every single day.

Give up the remote to your husband or wife. Kiss them. Hug them. Tell them you love them because you never know what tomorrow will bring. Or if there will even be one.

I hope that you are happy and healthy, wherever you are in the World.

All My Best,

Tracy Yates
B2E Ezine Owner
Columbus

BELIEVE IN

1.Forgive others and yourself:
Life is too short to hold on to regrets, grudges or disappointments.
Free yourself by forgiving others and yourself and letting go
of any negative energy.

2. Practice gratitude and appreciation:
Focus on everything good in your life and you will feel grateful.
Also, appreciate the wonderful people around you.

3. Live each day as though it were your last:
In that way, you will be living in a state of purpose with non-attachment to people or things and in one of love.

4. Meditate or pray:
You open up a direct link between yourself and spirituality when you meditate or pray. You come closer to your creator energy and experience peace, clarity and joy. You will reach a balanced state between your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual realms.

5. Suspend judgement:
Judgement energy is dense, dark and heavy.
Let go of judging and criticising others and yourself.
Everyone is on a different path and some appear to be farther ahead on theirs than others. No path is better or worse than another.
Learn to accept.

6. View every experience as a gift:
If you look back at occurrences in your life, you can easily see how even the worst situations ended up teaching you valuable lessons. This resulted in putting you in the perfect place for your continuing development.

7. Stay consciously aware of all your thoughts and feelings:
It is easy to fall into bad patterns of complaining and feeling like a victim of society and your life. When you catch yourself in the negative zone, switch to one of gratitude and positive thinking.

8. Treat your physical body as your temple:
Your body is the only vehicle you've been given for this ride called life.
The better you care for your body by eating a healthy, balanced diet, by following a regular exercise routine and by giving your body the rest it requires, the more you will feel increased vitality.

9. View the world through the eyes of a child:
Children are happy observing and feeling the wonder and beauty in every single thing. They can't get enough. Look at everything and each human being as a child would and you'll be in a constant position of surprise and enliightenment.

10. Give lots of love from your heart:
It's all about love. Love is the highest vibration.
Allow yourself to receive love unconditionally from others.
And, offer love from your heart in the same way to others and yourself and you will attain the highest state of awareness and bliss possible.

Smile - Serve - Sacrifice - Satisfy
A BIRD SITTING ON THE BRANCH OF TREE ISN'T AFRAID OF BRANCH BREAKING BECAUSE THE BIRD TRUSTS NOT THE BRANCHES, BUT IT'S OWN WINGS.
"Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value. Success will follow you."
"The Road to Success is always under construction"

How to plan for achieve success

Most of my friends tell that they are not happy with their lives but they never want to try anything to change their lives. They just live their life day by day with no direction and go wherever life takes them. When you don’t plan to be successful, you will not recognize opportunities. It’s easy to blame your circumstances but you should look for ways and plan to become a successful person.

The very first thing is that you need to know what it is that you want out of your life. Go somewhere alone that is quite, spend sometimes and ask yourself that what do you really want in your life? You will need to write your answers down in detail. When you have a list of things that you want to accomplish prioritize your list and then give it a dead line of your list that you would like to accomplish. You will have some obstacles in your way to succeed but don’t allow yourself to give it up.

People who succeed at anything in life have usually planned for it first. Plan for your success first then believe that you will be successful and then visualize yourself being successful, act like you are successful. They say “Fake it until you make it” it will help you to shape your own future which would be full of successes.

All you have to do is believe, be ready to receive, open your mind and heart, and start thinking as though you were already successful that would condition your mind to find more opportunities and increase more successes.

Thank you for reading and I wish you good luck with your plan

A unique relationship

Did you know that?
There is a relationship between

your two eyes?

They blink together,
They move together,
They cry together,
They see things together,
And they sleep together,
But they never see each other…

A real friendship would just be like that.

Life is like a hell without friends.

3 Kays of how to live (Which one is bigger?)

Good Day,

That’s really cool, you’ve got to see it to believe it, learn the 3 keys of how to live abundantly in your finances, health and relationship.

There’s this one part with the card trick that really blew my mind. You’ll see what I mean.

Click on bellow link and enjoy it…

http://www.LawToSuccess.net/blog/?name=Arina&cbid=karinakro&tid=

I wish you a beautiful Wednesday…

Be in Joy now and everything will change

In the moment that I discovered The Secret I realized that I had been living my entire life backwards. If things were good in my life, I was happy. If things were difficult in my life and everything was going wrong, I was stressed and miserable. In my ignorance, I had been misusing the law of attraction all of my life. But all of that changed when I had the knowledge of The Secret.

To live in accordance with The Secret and the most powerful law in the Universe, we must be in Joy first - and then everything will change. To live our lives by emotionally reacting to what is happening outside of us is misusing the law! As we react with negative emotion to any difficulties, we attract more negativity into our lives. We cannot defy the law of attraction, which operates on the most microscopic levels of vibration, and with absolute exactitude.

You must be in Joy first. And then your life will change into Joy.

Difficult times are the greatest opportunities in disguise. When we face difficult times we have to put in determined work to get ourselves into Joy. But let me tell you, when you can get yourself into Joy despite what is happening around you, your life must change - it's the law!

In addition, as you become Joy in difficult times you are becoming the master of your emotions, the master of your life, and the master of the law of attraction. Difficult times are your greatest opportunity to practice yourself into Joy.

Of course if your life is going along swimmingly then it is very easy to be in Joy. During those times your Joy is most likely a reaction to the good times. But the magnificence and the power that you really have within you will be seen when you can be in Joy during difficult times. It is then that you will see the true power that you have within you, because as you hold to Joy, you will shift all the energies of the Universe, and your life and your world will change.

The cause of everything is within you, and the effect is what you experience in your life. You have the power within you to change everything by putting yourself in Joy. You can change everything so easily by becoming Joy first! And nothing can change until you get yourself in Joy, because that is the law of attraction. Like attracts like! The energy of Joy attracts energy of Joy!

Do whatever it takes to find your Joy, and then keep yourself in it no matter what. Keep ramping up your level of Joy every day. There is no limit to the levels of Joy you can reach. You will see change to the degree of Joy that you can attain and maintain. The higher the Joy you can create within you, the more spectacular the change, and the higher the Joy, the faster the change. Once you get yourself in Joy it is easy to maintain it, because your emanation of Joy attracts more Joy. The law of attraction will continually send you more feelings of Joy.

You cannot criticize or blame or complain when you are in Joy. You cannot be afraid when you are in Joy. You cannot speak negatively when you are in Joy. You cannot harm another when you are in Joy. Negativity cannot reach you when you are in Joy.

When you are in Joy you are compassionate. When you are in Joy you are considerate and caring. When you are in Joy you love others. When you are in Joy you appreciate everything. When you are in Joy you are in love with the world, and the Universe is in love with you.

Be in Joy. Seek it with all of your heart, and you will find it.

May the Joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne
Creator of The Secret

Nothing is impossible

When someone tells you that you can't do something...

Look around...

Consider all options...

Then GO for it!

Use all the things God gave you!

Be creative!

In the end, you will succeed and prove them wrong!

Always remember

"Nothing is impossible, if your heart is willing"
Get rid of the word impossible from your dictionary and you will succeed.

Health Tips

Can I Borrow £10?

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.
SON: ' Daddy, may I ask you a question? '
DAD: ' Yeah sure, what it is? ' replied the man.
SON: ' Daddy, how much do you make an hour? '
DAD: ' That ' s none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing? ' the man said angrily.
SON: ' I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour? '
DAD: ' If you must know, I make £25 an hour. '
SON: ' Oh, ' the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: ' Daddy, may I please borrow £10? '
The father was furious, '
If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don ' t work hard everyday for such childish frivolities. '
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy ' s questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that £10.00 and he really didn ' t ask for money very often The man went to the door of the little boy ' s room and opened the door. ' Are you asleep, son? '
He asked. ' No daddy, I ' m awake, ' replied the boy. ' I ' ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier ' said the man. ' It ' s been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here ' s the £10.00 you asked for. ' The little boy sat straight up, smiling. ' Oh, thank you daddy! ' he yelled.
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up notes. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father. ' Why do you want more money if you already have some? ' the father grumbled. ' Because I didn ' t have enough, but now I do, ' the little boy replied. ' Daddy, I have £25 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you. ' The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It ' s just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that £25 worth of your time with someone you love. If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

Life

With the demise of a loved one,

with the loss of the most important relationship,

with a shut down from the only source that put food on your table,

with those words of criticism that cut through our skin,

with those sleepless nights drenched in the heavy falls of your heart,

believe and trust that the tears of today don't last forever.

Anything and everything is passéd

Life waits for none.

Take your time to start running your race again,

but don't fail to run.

The sun does not cease to rise,

the waves don't stop lapping,

the stars don't fail to twinkle,

and the animals refuse to stop running for their survival.

Then why should we stop?

the ugly and the beautiful truth of life remains................

it just goes on!!

Father & Son

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his45 Years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"
The Son replied "It is a crow".
After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time,"What is this?" At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".

A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"

This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times'ITIS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary:- "Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So..If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today say this aloud "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me even since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

A story tells that two friends
Were walking through the desert

During some point of the

Journey they had an

Argument,

and one friend

Slapped the other one In the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt,

but without saying anything,

wrote in the sand:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE .

They kept on walking until they found an oasis,

where they decided to take a bath.

The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning,

but the friend saved him.

After he recovered from the near drowning,

he wrote on a stone:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.

The friend who

had slapped and saved his best friend asked him,

"After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?"

The other friend replied

"When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand

where winds of forgiveness can erase it away.

But, when someone does something good for us,

we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.

" LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND

AND

TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE!!!

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,

an hour to appreciate them,

a day to love them,

but then an entire life to forget them.

Exercise your brain.

Not only is exercise smart for your heart and weight, but it can make you smarter and better at what you do.

By: Jean Lawrence.

No matter what your age or shape, you should train and exercise your brain regularly. Not only is exercise smart for your heart and weight, but also it can make you smarter, perform better at what you do, It affects mood, vitality, alertness, feelings of well being, you can think more clearly, and you can function at a higher level.

According to medical studies,

Challenge your brain by doing old routines in new ways
Brush your teeth with your other hand
Do crossword puzzles
Learn a new language
Learn a new computer program

A Brain exercise you can do right now…

This is an exercise that can strengthen neural connections and even create new ones.

Switch the hand you are using to control the computer mouse. Use the hand you normally do NOT use.

What do you notice?

Is it harder to be precise and accurate with your motions?

Do you feel like you did when you were first learning to tie your shoelaces?

If you are feeling uncomfortable and awkward don’t worry, your brain is learning a new skill.

Try other neural building and strengthening exercises with everyday movements. Use your opposite hand to brush your teeth, dial the phone or operate the TV remote.

I wish you good luck with your Brain Exercise

Thank you for reading and have a nice day.

Regular Exercise can make you feel better

We all know regular exercise is a must for good health, to stay fit and healthy at least we need to get 30 minutes of exercise regularly. Research suggests that maintaining an active lifestyle is the key to good health. regular physical activity decreases the risk of death from heart disease, lowers the risk of developing diabetes, and is associated with a decreased risk of colon cancer. It also helps prevent high blood pressure and helps you lose weight and keep it off.

• Think of yourself as an active person
• Make physical activity a part of your everyday routine
• Get 30 minutes of activity that makes you breathe harder
  
  Increasing the amount of everyday exercise in your life can make a big difference
  
  I wish you good luck with your health
  
  Thank you for reading

The only way to lose is to quit.

As long as you continue to make the effort,
you have not lost. Everyone experiences setbacks.

However, winners experience the most setbacks
because winners persist as long as it takes to win.
Does it ever seem that you are
blocked in every direction?

That's the time to get creative, become
more flexible, and open yourself to the
possibilities that are most certainly there.
Sometimes when you get stuck in a rut,
the rut can suddenly and unexpectedly run out.

And what a great opportunity that can be
for you to climb out of that rut, look around,
and see all the valuable things you've been missing.
Never quit. Use each setback, each
disappointment as a cue to push on ahead
with more determination than ever before.

If you Don't want to be Ill

Good Day!

If you don’t want to be ill Trust,

what is Trust? is acceptance of something as true or reliable without being able to verify it.

Who does not trust, does not communicate, is not opened, is not related, does not create deep and stable relations, and does not know to do true friendships. Without confidence, there is not relationship. Distrust is a lack of faith in you and in faith itself.

When trust is betrayed, it hurts deep. It could be something as simple as relying on someone to be a friend who turns out not to be.

In life, we spend a lot of time confiding ourselves to someone else’s “responsible care”. Often that confidence is betrayed because the other person has to serve their own needs. Unfortunately, it’s usually at your expense. It’s hard to swallow that kind of pain, depending on the circumstances.

We all have different levels of trust in life; it comes from some of our experiences. The dramas and heartaches of our lives that have us out in this world playing emotional mental games with one another,

“When you put your trust in someone it means that you expect them to do what they say they will do, which is usually something that you should be doing for yourself. Trusting in someone usually means that there is something they have that you believe you need, or something you have that you believe they can take away to cause you harm. You place your reliance on words or “promised” action”.

When the truth reveals itself, it always does. You become disillusioned. Trust is a precious emotion. There are so many games being played with people’s trust.

Perhaps if we learn how to trust ourselves, we will be in a better position to trust others and rid out of lots of Illness.

I wish you good luck with your Trust

Thank you for reading and have a nice day!

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