Monday, July 13, 2009

Why people fail to accomplish their goals?

Well, the first reason I would like to share with you that makes our goals fail is that we don’t have a clear enough plan of what we really want in life or to where we want to go. Without the plan, how can we possibly know when we get there? By having a clear plan we can have more conviction about where we are at present. Always remember that a well written plan is must for any success in our life.

The second reason is that, we fail to take action in order to get somewhere. Many of us wonder why our life doesn’t go the way we want it. The thing is that we often don’t know what action to take and we are not being honest with ourselves. The best idea in the universe will not take us anywhere without our action.

The final reason is most of us give up just before we are about to accomplish our goals. We let discouragement and obstacles become barriers, rather than using them as launching pads for the next approach. What if our last discouragement is the key to getting what we want? How important is this goal to us? If it is a “must” we can’t give it up. That doesn’t mean us beat our head against the wall doing the same thing over and over again but it also means us find another approach.

No one wants to fail in life. we all would like strive to be the best we can be. So you know now, why is it that some people seemingly fail over and over again. Let’s avoid the pain of failure and plan goal first, take action and never give up…

I wish you good luck to lead yourself to the road to success.

Thank you for reading.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Secret To Your Success!

Good Day!

I would like to share an awesome video from my favorite incredible coach Bob Proctor, it could help you to achieve massive success... no matter what you do, where you live, your current financial condition, what your education level is, or who you want to become!

I wish you good Luck!

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Let's make the world a better place


"You make the world a better place by making yourself a better person."
Scott Sorrell

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Make someone feel good.

Doing for others make us feel good. It may also be good for our physical health. A recent study found that people who give support and assistance to others live healthier and longer.

• keep smiling on your face. We can be happier at work if we smile more, even if we have to fake it. Putting on a happy face has positive benefits both for you and the people around you. Smile makes everyone feel good. Try it right now and notice how it makes you feel more relaxed.

• Help a friend, relative, or neighbor with errands, transportation, shopping, or other tasks.

• Get involved in a volunteer organization.

• Teach your child how good it feels to give to others by volunteering together as like helping out an elderly neighbor.

• Pick up trash when you see it in a park or on the beach.

• Let someone else take the good parking space or go ahead of you in line.
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I wish you good luck to make someone feels good.
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Thank you for reading

Monday, June 29, 2009

Why? Why? Why?

"As long as one keeps searching, the answers come." =Joan Baez=

Asking ourselves 'why?' helps us delve deeply into our main motives -- why we do what we do. This process helps us go deeper into our reasoning, habits and unconscious beliefs. Once we become aware of our underlying motives, we can choose to change them, if we wish.

Regularly ask yourself, 'Why am I...?' Listen closely for the answer that surfaces in your mind, and write it down. Now look at your answer and ask why again. Continue with this process to reach the true source of your motivation.

Higher Awareness

Sunday, June 28, 2009

An old Father and his Son

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son.

Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is it?"

The Son replied "It is a crow".

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is it?"

The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, what is it?"

At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff.

"It's a crow, a crow".

A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, "What is it?"

This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is It", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So..,

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me. They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".

Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

Thanks you for reading...

Author: Unknown

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

How to plan for achieve success

Most of my friends tell that they are not happy with their lives but they never want to try anything to change their lives. They just live their life day by day with no direction and go wherever life takes them. When you don’t plan to be successful, you will not recognize opportunities. It’s easy to blame your circumstances but you should look for ways and plan to become a successful person.

The very first thing is that you need to know what it is that you want out of your life. Go somewhere alone that is quite, spend sometimes and ask yourself that what do you really want in your life? You will need to write your answers down in detail. When you have a list of things that you want to accomplish prioritize your list and then give it a dead line of your list that you would like to accomplish. You will have some obstacles in your way to succeed but don’t allow yourself to give it up.

People who succeed at anything in life have usually planned for it first. Plan for your success first then believe that you will be successful and then visualize yourself being successful, act like you are successful. They say “Fake it until you make it” it will help you to shape your own future which would be full of successes.

All you have to do is believe, be ready to receive, open your mind and heart, and start thinking as though you were already successful that would condition your mind to find more opportunities and increase more successes.

Thank you for reading and I wish you good luck with your plan

Monday, March 23, 2009

Be in Joy now and everything will change

In the moment that I discovered The Secret I realized that I had been living my entire life backwards. If things were good in my life, I was happy. If things were difficult in my life and everything was going wrong, I was stressed and miserable. In my ignorance, I had been misusing the law of attraction all of my life. But all of that changed when I had the knowledge of The Secret.

To live in accordance with The Secret and the most powerful law in the Universe, we must be in Joy first - and then everything will change. To live our lives by emotionally reacting to what is happening outside of us is misusing the law! As we react with negative emotion to any difficulties, we attract more negativity into our lives. We cannot defy the law of attraction, which operates on the most microscopic levels of vibration, and with absolute exactitude.

You must be in Joy first. And then your life will change into Joy.

Difficult times are the greatest opportunities in disguise. When we face difficult times we have to put in determined work to get ourselves into Joy. But let me tell you, when you can get yourself into Joy despite what is happening around you, your life must change - it's the law!

In addition, as you become Joy in difficult times you are becoming the master of your emotions, the master of your life, and the master of the law of attraction. Difficult times are your greatest opportunity to practice yourself into Joy.

Of course if your life is going along swimmingly then it is very easy to be in Joy. During those times your Joy is most likely a reaction to the good times. But the magnificence and the power that you really have within you will be seen when you can be in Joy during difficult times. It is then that you will see the true power that you have within you, because as you hold to Joy, you will shift all the energies of the Universe, and your life and your world will change.

The cause of everything is within you, and the effect is what you experience in your life. You have the power within you to change everything by putting yourself in Joy. You can change everything so easily by becoming Joy first! And nothing can change until you get yourself in Joy, because that is the law of attraction. Like attracts like! The energy of Joy attracts energy of Joy!

Do whatever it takes to find your Joy, and then keep yourself in it no matter what. Keep ramping up your level of Joy every day. There is no limit to the levels of Joy you can reach. You will see change to the degree of Joy that you can attain and maintain. The higher the Joy you can create within you, the more spectacular the change, and the higher the Joy, the faster the change. Once you get yourself in Joy it is easy to maintain it, because your emanation of Joy attracts more Joy. The law of attraction will continually send you more feelings of Joy.

You cannot criticize or blame or complain when you are in Joy. You cannot be afraid when you are in Joy. You cannot speak negatively when you are in Joy. You cannot harm another when you are in Joy. Negativity cannot reach you when you are in Joy.

When you are in Joy you are compassionate. When you are in Joy you are considerate and caring. When you are in Joy you love others. When you are in Joy you appreciate everything. When you are in Joy you are in love with the world, and the Universe is in love with you.

Be in Joy. Seek it with all of your heart, and you will find it.

May the Joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne
Creator of The Secret

Nothing is impossible

When someone tells you that you can't do something...


Look around...


Consider all options...
Then GO for it!


Use all the things God gave you!


Be creative!


In the end, you will succeed and prove them wrong!

Always remember

"Nothing is impossible, if your heart is willing"
Get rid of the word impossible from your dictionary and you will succeed.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Exercise your brain.

Not only is exercise smart for your heart and weight, but it can make you smarter and better at what you do.

By: Jean Lawrence.

No matter what your age or shape, you should train and exercise your brain regularly. Not only is exercise smart for your heart and weight, but also it can make you smarter, perform better at what you do, It affects mood, vitality, alertness, feelings of well being, you can think more clearly, and you can function at a higher level.

According to medical studies,

Challenge your brain by doing old routines in new ways
Brush your teeth with your other hand
Do crossword puzzles
Learn a new language
Learn a new computer program

A Brain exercise you can do right now…

This is an exercise that can strengthen neural connections and even create new ones.

Switch the hand you are using to control the computer mouse. Use the hand you normally do NOT use.

What do you notice?

Is it harder to be precise and accurate with your motions?

Do you feel like you did when you were first learning to tie your shoelaces?

If you are feeling uncomfortable and awkward don’t worry, your brain is learning a new skill.

Try other neural building and strengthening exercises with everyday movements. Use your opposite hand to brush your teeth, dial the phone or operate the TV remote.

I wish you good luck with your Brain Exercise

Thank you for reading and have a nice day.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Practice Compassion For Everlasting Happiness

Compassion is a profound human emotion, a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, empathy is something we all should practice regularly on daily basis. According to a new study on cultivating compassion that just by a small act of compassion not only brings you the inner power to change things better but also generates a great sense of inner peace.

I am proud to share with you that I was a Boy Scout at my school. Scouts were designed to build character, physical fitness, practical skills and services. Boy scouts learns and strive to live by the Scout Law. A scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent. Compassion, cooperation, courage, honesty, positive attitudes are the main core values that we practiced. Practicing compassion in our daily life is not something we do for others, we do it for our own happiness. Dalai Lama said, “If you want to be happy, practice compassion and if you want others to be happy, practice compassion” Empathy can not improve the world, it’s only when we cultivate it within us and bring it into action that can become a force for a change.

Some scientific studies suggest that there are physical benefits to practicing compassion. People who practice it produce 100 percent more DHEA, The main benefit is that it helps you to be happier and thus make others happier. Compassionate people are also more positive. That’s why we all should practice compassion every day of our life.

The practice of compassion increases our capacity to care. It reinforces charity, and empathy. It is very good exercise for our heart muscle. Compassion allows physical body to heal from stress and tension, gives inner power and peace to change things better. My family members’ glad that I look after them, my friends are glad to know that I am really listening to them, my co-workers glad to know that I am working with collaboration in mind. This gives me a genuine feeling of happiness.

I believe practicing compassion is something that will bring us true everlasting happiness.

Let’s practice compassion until it becomes one of our habits

Thank you for reading and for your precious time

Monday, September 15, 2008

Do you know how friendship breaks?

GOOD DAY!
Well, in the friendship, the first thing both friends will think the other is busy and they will not contact each other, by thinking that it may be disturbing.
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And then as time passes, both will think let the other person contact me. After that each will think why I should contact and why I should contact him or her first?
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Do you know what is going to happen next?

Here their love will be converted to hate each other… so sad isn’t it?

Well finally without contact the memory becomes weak and then they forget each other. And their friendship breaks up.

So please keep in touch with all of your friends and feel free to share this with everyone you love.

I wish you good luck with your friendship

Monday, September 8, 2008

Practice forgiveness

Forgiveness is something we all should practice regularly on daily basis. Most of the world religions teaching on forgiveness and the most profound human example Mohammed (PBUH) as an example of someone who forgives others for their ignorance, even those who considered themselves to be his enemies.

Forgiveness is a gift for all Mankind, it is a peace of mind and a way of releasing ourselves from the pain we have experienced from others. Most of us have reflection of our past experiences so many negative and fearful emotions that make us feel powerless. Holding onto grievances only causes us pain, suffering and conflict. We refuse to expend a lot of energy thinking about how others have wronged us. Instead we can use our energy to focus on what we need to do most important things in life. We can't go along in life for too long before we have an opportunity to forgive someone. We may not verbally lash out, but we can get upset with people in our thoughts, without even realizing we need to forgive them. Release yourself. Let it go and know that the person who forgives is always strongest person.

Did you know that? Practicing forgiveness is not something we do for other people, We do it for our own sake to get well and move on. It does not change our past. Instead, it changes our feelings about the past. People who are willing and able to forgive tend to be more satisfied with their life. Let your friends, enemies or a person someone who hurts you know that you have forgiven.

However, forgiveness is taking positive action reconnecting us with our own power. I would encourage you to understand and allow yourself to exercise in forgiveness with your hand on your heart, take a deep breath and let it go. Let’s feel less stress, less anger, and more forgiveness

Let’s practice forgiveness until it becomes one of our habits

Thank you for your precious time

Monday, September 1, 2008

Be Proud of yourself

It doesn’t matter where you are and what you do. Don’t be afraid to be proud for who you are and tell others the feeling of being your best. You know what? If you are reading this article, you are a person who is interested in making more of yourself and you really want to develop your ability. If that is who you are, I would like to share that how every one of us can be proud of ourselves?

Make a positive list of all the things that you can be proud of for an example, you may be proud of your education, your work, your friends, your family, your neighborhood, your country, your government, your culture, your religion, your healthy body, your personal grooming, and your manners.

Don’t be hesitate or ashamed of anything, be proud of what you have done and put your name on it. Let others know it was you. Don’t hide yourself and wish that you had done something. Be confident stand up when someone says your name. Don’t worry about what anyone else has to say about you. Just know that, it is very important for each of us to learn to love ourselves and to be proud of our accomplishments. Even when it seems like you are failing at life, you should still remember to be proud of yourself for trying. You should be thankful when you wake up every morning that you have another day of trying ahead of you. Each day brings more opportunities for you. Be proud of the chance you get to tackle each of these opportunities. Some may bring you more success than others, but the efforts are always worth more than you realize. If you can look at every thing in life with a positive attitude, you will be creating the path to true happiness. We should be proud of ourselves no matter what.

Thank you for reading and I wish you to be always proud of yourself.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Build Few Habits for Loving Your Life

The very first habit is to love yourself and take care of you. It doesn’t matter what you do, if you do something for others without look after yourself. Eat well, take a good care of your good health, take sometimes out, keep yourself away from toxic people and situation(Stay away from people and places where you don't feel wanted), don’t forget to relax and it doesn’t matter what you do, love what you do and learn to enjoy it. Always remember to feel good to do well.

The second habit is getting some help from others. Don’t do everything alone. I guess it’s overwhelming and it’s really impossible to do alone. Why don’t you ask others for some help? Go find some support. You know what? If you are overworked, you will be not good for anybody.

The third habit is learn to say “No” we can never say this enough and saying “No” to anything is immoral or unethical and also we all know that saying “No” to anything doesn’t make us feel good. For an example: “No.” I don’t feel like working this hard. Or “No” I don’t want to go out because I feel tired.” I don’t know why saying “No” is so hard for many of us. But saying “No can often support the greater good of “Yes” do you know what? Saying “No” to other people’s requests helps us achieve our more important goals. Specifically taking care of ourselves, believe me. It's okay. You will still be loved when you say "No" because you simply can't do it all.

The last one habit I would like to share with you is to talk less, listen more and learn. This is a really hard one but talking is exhausting. It’s easier to listen, you don’t have to work hard and then you learn things. You know what? When you listen you can see what others have to offer and what others don’t. So why don’t you listen up? Show respect by appreciating ideas and what he or she gives you.

I promise you, if you do so, your rewards will be enormous in more ways then you have ever imagined.

Take care of yourself and be in the habit of loving your life.

Thank you for reading and I wish you good luck with good habits

Monday, August 4, 2008

Nothing is impossible

Have you ever thought about why are some people failing although they wish success often?

Do remember that all our thoughts become things, what we think most of our time is what we become. Anything is possible in our life, if we just believe it. Every one of us at some point of life has dreamed of being someone special. Who doesn’t dreams of being rich, successful, or happy life? We often dream big and have great aspirations. Unfortunately our dreams remain just that-dream.

We think about thousands of things each and every minute and day. We pay little attention to them every day and most of them are not positive, we do not even try to control our negative thoughts. Eventually we end up believing that our thoughts do not turn into reality. If we predominate our thoughts on doubt or fear then those thoughts become true. Thus, we meet with failure and poverty.

This is a sad turn of events in our life, instead of experiencing exciting adventures. let us allow only those thoughts that suite the thing we want and constantly filter our thoughts. Then we will have perfect control on our thoughts. If someone fears that you will retain weight easily by eating, you will entertain fearful images of yourself each time you eat and the mental image becomes the reality very soon.

You know what? Life could be so much better, if only we learned to aim higher. If we intensely desire to have super health, youth, and happiness, our brain will eventually guide us to seek ways to control food intake, eat more fruits and vegetables to do exercises often. You will find that anything you desired will be yours.

I wish you to live your dream life and thank you for reading

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Let’s practice delayed Gratification and Discipline

Our natural tendency is to spend everything we earn plus a little bit more. Our mind set of doing what is fun, and enjoyable is the primary cause of personal failure in our life. We are to spend everything we earn and many of us say that changing our career would do better for a while but did you know? that one of the secrets of successful people is the ability to see things from a long term perspective. So let’s get rid of extra expenses that are holding us back because it may be important for us to surround ourselves with a team of experts such as a reliable accountant, motivation coach, and a financial planner. Just know that, successful people often make themselves do things that others don’t want to do. On the other hand, disciplining ourselves to do what we know is important, although difficult is the personal satisfaction.

Every sacrifice that we make today will be rewarded with compound interest in the future.

I wish you good luck and thanks for your precious time

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Be Confident

Have you ever thought about to be confident? Well, I read a proverb somewhere says that, “For a man of confidence all roads lead to success” first of all it’s very good to make a list of special talents that you have for an example: Focusing on your attributes helps distract you from those parts of yourself that you think are flawed. It doesn't have to be a specific skill or activity either; it can be an approach or an attitude that you champion through out your life.

The next thing is that we have to take action. Taking a simple step of action can be very powerful that will bring such a surprise. It could be something as simple as tackling a task that you have been procrastinating, such as writing a letter to your friend that has been out of control for the last several months. Whether large or small, action brings with it exhilaration, enthusiasm, and the confidence.

Finally, you have to take care of yourself that eat a healthy diet and make sure that you get enough exercise. Don’t overload your body and don’t deny any of the things that your body needs. At the same time, you know what? Buying all the moisturizers and creems will never bring you closer to who really want to be, those are only make up. Confidence comes from within. Take the time to reflect on your life and do some emotional maintenance. In order to be confident, you must value yourself and understand that your well-being is important.

I wish you good luck with your self confidence

Thank you for your precious time.

Friday, July 11, 2008

Why never have any spire times?

The question is often asked why we never have any spare time in the modern life.

Well it is our poor choice management that much has been written about proper time management, but sometimes the advice focuses merely on making more efficient use of time. Get up earlier, delegate everything. Such advice does not really effectively address the problem of too many tasks. In fact, too much emphasis on time management makes one obsessive, always watching the clock and thinking about what task is scheduled next. So perhaps the nervousness over time management should give way to a more thoughtful care about choice management. Manage your life, not your time. Modern society suffers from an unwillingness to say, "No." Faced with too many options and too much pressure, we respond with too many YESES. We are afraid to deny to others or to ourselves the many opportunities, the many options, we face daily. But everything we choose requires Use Time.

There is an old proverb somewhere that says, "To accomplish more, do less." Success doesn’t require hard work, success requests smart work. Plan your day and enjoy accomplishing them.

Good Luck and Thank you for reading

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

How to realize your Potential?

Every one of us has our own incredible capacity to accomplish our wildest dreams! Did you know? That, within you is the power to accomplish anything you want in your life but it will never happen if you are not tuned into your true desires.

For an example if you want to be succeeding in business, you may not be another mega-millionaire, but you will succeed in your endeavors. Set goals that you can achieve. Divide them into little tidbits that you can accomplish every day, every month, or every year. Set your goals for success.

Start immediately to accomplish the goals you have set. In fact, give yourself a task that you can finish by tomorrow. Think of yourself as a success in your endeavors. Live and breathe them until you have them.

Can you see yourself a year from now, having achieved a few goals?

Can you make the decision and commitment to become successful in your desires?

If you answer yes then you have the potential to accomplish anything you want.

People fail because they immediately fasten their attention to the negative. Change your thinking and work the part of your plan you can, do everything you can! Always appreciate everything, even if you feel like something could be negative. Understand that there is no right or wrong way to do something. Be thankful for your mistakes, and let them go!

Because, there are no mistakes only opportunities to learn

Enjoy the moment, live your moment and forget the future or your past…

Thank you for your precious time

 
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